I have bought a pair of gideon beetles four days ago. On the first day, they keeps eating for the whole day and on the second day, they mate and still eating a whole slice of banana like the picture below.

But recently, beetles stop eating for 2 days after their mating, this is my first time having beetles and I am very worry, especially the female beetle keeps hiding and burrowing into the dirt, her body feels so weak and slow, hissing me when I dig her up (sounds like a very weak mouse) and instantly burrowing into the dirt aftedward. Male beetle keeps finding the female one by burrowing himself and my friend said that I should keep the male away, so I split the tank up like the image below, the dirt side is for the female and the saw dust side is for the male.

The male one is still strong and active, but still not eating like the female.
Sorry for my bad English and I'm looking for everyone advices.
Thanks

But recently, beetles stop eating for 2 days after their mating, this is my first time having beetles and I am very worry, especially the female beetle keeps hiding and burrowing into the dirt, her body feels so weak and slow, hissing me when I dig her up (sounds like a very weak mouse) and instantly burrowing into the dirt aftedward. Male beetle keeps finding the female one by burrowing himself and my friend said that I should keep the male away, so I split the tank up like the image below, the dirt side is for the female and the saw dust side is for the male.

The male one is still strong and active, but still not eating like the female.
Sorry for my bad English and I'm looking for everyone advices.
Thanks